263rd Date: She Said Setting His Grandma’s Yard on Fire Was Justified?!

[00:00:00] Speaker A: What toxic advice would you give your younger self. [00:00:06] Speaker B: Or what toxic advice my younger self would have gave me because I was very, very toxic. [00:00:10] Speaker A: What toxic advice would you, would I give your younger self? [00:00:16] Speaker B: Any advice I give her probably will have me in orange and a new black. But I probably would say you was. Yeah, you was right for setting that guy grandma yard on fire. And I probably, I probably would also poured it on his car. [00:00:33] Speaker A: So yeah, next time pour it on. [00:00:35] Speaker B: Yeah, next time just pull up on the car, you know. [00:00:43] Speaker A: Welcome back to Relationship Status. It's your boy Yousef in the building. And remember, you can catch us on all podcast platforms. Remember to like share, follow 5 star rate. Also, don't forget to join the Facebook group that is jumping right, right about now. This relationship status podcast advice group on Instagram Messenger. 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[00:02:01] Speaker A: What makes that so interesting? Why you so. Why is that? [00:02:05] Speaker B: It's just interesting. [00:02:07] Speaker A: What's so interesting about it? [00:02:08] Speaker B: It's just so interesting that you use those words, those adjectives. Well, those adjectives. I forgot, Mr. English Teacher. Yeah. [00:02:17] Speaker A: No, we. What we're not going to do. [00:02:18] Speaker B: Yes. [00:02:20] Speaker A: Just put, put that out. That's what we're not gonna do is put out my daily profession. [00:02:28] Speaker B: It's okay. [00:02:29] Speaker A: Yeah, huh. Until it ain't. I mean, it's okay. [00:02:33] Speaker B: I want you to dress up like an English teacher and teach us some English. [00:02:36] Speaker A: Okay. All right. [00:02:37] Speaker B: Role playing. Okay. You know, might turn some of the. [00:02:41] Speaker A: Night, you know, someone. I like it. Hey, listen, come on, Mr. English is what they say sometimes. [00:02:47] Speaker B: See, I didn't put that out there. I just said English teachers so who's dropp? [00:02:55] Speaker A: All right, all right. So today we're going to do a reacts episode. It's going to be a real quick reacts episode. First off, before we get to that, let's go to our question of the week. Question of the week in the group chat. Yo, it got jumping in there today. Question of the week today, this week was what toxic advice? What toxic advice would you give your younger self. [00:03:23] Speaker B: Or what toxic advice my younger self would have gave me because I was very, very toxic dating. [00:03:27] Speaker A: What toxic advice would you, would I give your younger self? [00:03:35] Speaker B: See, now you want to go tox. [00:03:38] Speaker A: What toxic advice would you give your younger self? You want me, do you want me to read what the listeners see, the. [00:03:44] Speaker B: Thing is, my younger self was very, very toxic. So like, you know, and if it wasn't for her having, you know, connections in the police department, she could have been locked up. So I feel like any advice I give her probably will have me in orange and a new black. But I probably would say you was, yeah, you was right for setting that guy grandma yard on fire. And I probably, I probably would also poured it on his car. So. [00:04:15] Speaker A: Yeah, next time. Poured on his car. [00:04:17] Speaker B: Yeah, next time just pull up on the car, you know. [00:04:19] Speaker A: Okay. [00:04:20] Speaker B: The yard wasn't enough. Yes. [00:04:21] Speaker A: Yeah, definitely toxic. Yeah, I, I said these hoes as, as the great philosopher said. [00:04:31] Speaker B: Who is the great philosopher? [00:04:32] Speaker A: These hoes ain't loyal. Chris Brown. The great philosopher Chris Brown. [00:04:38] Speaker B: He ain't the original one about these toys. No, no, it's not. Who is Snoop Dogg. [00:04:43] Speaker A: Snoop Dogg did say thank you. [00:04:45] Speaker B: How the hell. [00:04:47] Speaker A: I'm sorry, you got me beat on that. [00:04:49] Speaker B: Very so all right. [00:04:51] Speaker A: In the comments we got my boy Tyrus all the way from Spartanburg. [00:04:55] Speaker B: How is that toxic? Saying these hoes ain't loyal? [00:04:58] Speaker A: Because, because if you, if you. I'm telling him not to take anybody serious. [00:05:03] Speaker B: No, you're just saying they not loyal. So you could take somebody serious. You just know that the loyalty. [00:05:09] Speaker A: If a person ain't loyal, you not taking them serious. If you know ahead of time. If you know ahead of time. If you know ahead of time that. [00:05:16] Speaker B: But you just know them for who they are is what I'm saying. You could still take them serious, just not probably in a certain. [00:05:22] Speaker A: You don't be loyal. There we go. That might be better, you know, to people who are not going to be. [00:05:27] Speaker B: Like, I mean, y' all be on the same thing. But then you could also take them serious and if they're not loyal. Right, because what people, what do you really. That word be thrown out there. But what is really considered loyalty First. [00:05:39] Speaker A: Okay, so what is the. So the sort of Webster's definition of loyalty. [00:05:43] Speaker B: No, not Webster. I'm talking about everybody's definition of loyalty is different. To me, loyalty would be somebody who has my back when I need them to. It's not about. Because I don't even look at stuff as cheating because of how my mentality is. It's just hot. [00:06:01] Speaker A: So what is cheating? [00:06:03] Speaker B: What. What is she. I don't own that person. That person is making a decision. [00:06:07] Speaker A: No, I'm saying, so what do you consider cheating? If. If I don't. So you don't consider nothing cheating? [00:06:12] Speaker B: No. [00:06:12] Speaker A: So you could be in a relationship. [00:06:14] Speaker B: Yes. [00:06:15] Speaker A: And they can go do whatever with whoever. [00:06:17] Speaker B: If that's our conversation, yes. [00:06:18] Speaker A: No, but. But then that's not. I don't see that. [00:06:20] Speaker B: It's not. [00:06:21] Speaker A: But then I don't see that as cheating. [00:06:22] Speaker B: No, it's not cheating. It's renegotiating the terms. [00:06:25] Speaker A: No, but I don't think you. Whatever the terms are coming in. Those are the terms. [00:06:30] Speaker B: Yeah. So now we have to renegotiate. [00:06:32] Speaker A: But why are we renegotiating anything? There's nothing to renegotiate. If we already came in. [00:06:35] Speaker B: You're deciding. So say, for instance, we decided to be exclusively together. If you decide to talk to somebody on the side. I don't consider that cheating. I just feel like we need to renegotiate the terms so that you can. [00:06:49] Speaker A: Be allowed to talk to somebody on it. [00:06:50] Speaker B: Exactly. [00:06:56] Speaker A: See, now, okay, so then. So then why is that. So then why is that not in. Why is that not in the terms from the beginning? [00:07:03] Speaker B: Because you chose to set the terms a certain way. That was. [00:07:06] Speaker A: No, because we can. [00:07:07] Speaker B: That wasn't a topic of discussion. Maybe that person wasn't saying, hey, I like to. A lot of people, don't be honest. First of all, when they actually talk to people and say, hey, I'm lively to be interested in other people, how would you feel about that? Then that's a whole discussion. Then you can both go back and forth, say, hey, I'm for that. I'm with that. Oh, I'm on the same vibe as you versus you just settling with somebody who ain't on that vibe. So then you actually don't communicate your needs and you want to get with somebody that's on a different vibe of being loyal and consider stuff cheating when you could have had it the way that you want to have it, but you didn't voice Your opinion. [00:07:45] Speaker A: But you should have had that discussion from the beginning then. So that's what you're saying? [00:07:47] Speaker B: That's how I feel. Yeah. Have it. Because at the end of the day when you meeting somebody, what the worst that can happen, they could say, yeah, or that's a non negotiable for me. What's mine is mine. I don't mind sharing. I'm open, be honest. Scenario situations, you know, I mean, I just feel that that's just me. I just feel like you should have it in the beginning so that it doesn't be any issues later on. [00:08:12] Speaker A: And I'm not saying anything is wrong with what you're saying or how you're saying. [00:08:14] Speaker B: Definitely. [00:08:15] Speaker A: Yeah. No, I'm just saying, like, I think that you might be right in the sense of. But I don't think that there should be a renegotiation through. I think that it should just be, yo, this is what it is like, I know, I'm not me just saying if you know that you cannot function within a monogamous relationship, then you need to state that from the beginning. Hey, look, I'm not going to be able to function in a monogamous relationship. And since I can't function in a monogamous relationship, this is Anna. But I want to be with you. This is the way that I would choose to move in that particular sense. No, no, no, no, no. But you're saying renegotiating. I'm saying from the beginning. [00:08:52] Speaker B: Like, you know, you go ahead and do it in the beginning, but if you don't do it beginning, then you need to renegotiate the relationship before you do anything. I mean, say you already in it, right? We didn't have this conversation. We already in it. My man, my man, my man. But you like. No, I like to, you know, have my stuff on the side. So then I see something and I bring it to your attention, right? We had this conversation before. [00:09:20] Speaker A: Is it before you act or is it after you act? [00:09:23] Speaker B: What you mean like, like if you. [00:09:25] Speaker A: See somebody that you become attracted to that you like, yo, I want to put get that on the side. Are you having this conversation? Are you stopping in the moment and being like, hey, we need to talk. And then you having that discussion then? Or are you acting as in, yeah, I'm gonna get the number, I'm gonna this and the third. And then you bring it up to the person. [00:09:43] Speaker B: Bring it to the person. [00:09:44] Speaker A: Then you bring it to the person. [00:09:45] Speaker B: We can't say that because me, I'm. I'm gonna tell you off gate. [00:09:49] Speaker A: But that's what I'm saying. [00:09:50] Speaker B: I'll tell you in the beginning, but that's what I'm saying before I even get exclusive. Are you comfortable with dating different people? Are you okay with it? I would actually have a conversation before even getting exclusive with somebody. [00:10:04] Speaker A: Okay? [00:10:05] Speaker B: Honestly. But if we was in that scenario that I was just stating, the woman was faithful, the man was slipping off. So the fact that she caught him cheating. Are you saying after she catch him cheating, will she go find somebody then say, we about to negotiate. [00:10:19] Speaker A: No, no, no, no. And I'm saying after she caught. He's decided. He's already made the decision, right. That he's going to do something with someone, right. [00:10:28] Speaker B: And did it. [00:10:29] Speaker A: And let's say he did it. Let's say, let's say he did it. He acted upon it, right? If he acts upon it and then comes back to her, he can't come back and renegotiate because he's cheated. My point is, a renegotiation is. I seen this. I want that. Damn. Let me hold up because. Let me talk to her. [00:10:46] Speaker B: Not necessary. Because sometimes people renegotiate the terms after they dis. But who's to say that we can't renegotiate terms? [00:10:52] Speaker A: You can't. [00:10:53] Speaker B: It ain't law. Ain't nothing stuck in stone. This is a free world. [00:10:57] Speaker A: No, because. No because. Which is which. You're right. [00:10:59] Speaker B: What I'm saying is why we gotta do it? [00:11:02] Speaker A: Because if. Because. Because of the respect. [00:11:06] Speaker B: But what was the respect when you did the act? [00:11:09] Speaker A: That's my point. Then you're agreeing with me. [00:11:11] Speaker B: No, what I'm saying is what was the. You saying because of. [00:11:13] Speaker A: Because of the respect is gonna have me go. Let's say even if I wanted to deal with somebody else, right. My respect for you makes me stop what I'm doing. [00:11:25] Speaker B: So you saw what you wanted. [00:11:26] Speaker A: I saw what I wanted. And I'm like, damn. But my respect for you and our agreement makes me stop. Gives me calls to pause and go, okay, let me go talk to her. [00:11:38] Speaker B: So we can renegotiate terms on the relationship. [00:11:41] Speaker A: If this is in fact something, yo, I saw this girl. She was fine. I didn't really think I would want to be something. [00:11:47] Speaker B: So technically that's kind of after that. [00:11:49] Speaker A: Not after the act because I didn't. [00:11:51] Speaker B: Act on it physically. But you emotionally act. [00:11:54] Speaker A: No, I did not. I didn't get her phone number. I didn't do nothing. [00:11:57] Speaker B: You emotionally acted. [00:11:58] Speaker A: No, I didn't. [00:11:59] Speaker B: Because you was interested, you could walk. [00:12:01] Speaker A: You could walk down the street and you're gonna be. You're gonna be attracted to 10 out of the 15 people you pass. [00:12:06] Speaker B: Yeah. But it ain't gonna cause you to come to me and say something. So the fact that you wanted to bring it to my attention, that's meaning that you're emotionally reacting to it already. [00:12:15] Speaker A: That means that I did not act. [00:12:17] Speaker B: You're emotional. I didn't say physically. You're emotionally. Emotionally reacting because now you like. Okay, I gotta renegotiate the terms of what I told. [00:12:29] Speaker A: I'm just using your terminology. [00:12:30] Speaker B: Okay. [00:12:30] Speaker A: But that personally, if it would have been. It would have been. [00:12:34] Speaker B: I would say a renegotiation because I don't look at it as cheating. [00:12:38] Speaker A: Me personally, it would be in the beginning. In the beginning, if I felt like this was going to be something that was going to be open, it's going to be something I was going to allow. [00:12:44] Speaker B: But we didn't give it no timeline. We just said, you know, we just don't, you know, Hell, these days, people be trying to fall in love in two weeks. [00:12:53] Speaker A: Okay, okay, okay. But does that. What's so wrong? Can you con. Why do. Why is it wrong to not control your feelings? [00:13:07] Speaker B: No, what I'm saying is, it just is what it is. So sometimes, I mean, if you enjoy. You think that you want, you. You hype. [00:13:14] Speaker A: If you enjoying. If you. If you're enjoying someone. Yeah. You enjoying enjoying that you're enjoying the vibe. You enjoying being with them. You enjoy being around them. What is the problem with. I think, first off, I think everybody has all these walls up in dating today. I think a lot of people have walls up. And I think that what ends up happening is these walls cause people to run. Right? They become tractors. [00:13:37] Speaker B: Think it's the walls or is it people that jumped over those. [00:13:41] Speaker A: No, no, no. [00:13:42] Speaker B: That jumped over the line before the walls existed. [00:13:44] Speaker A: No, no, no. I'm saying it because if the last person I dealt with love bombed me. [00:13:52] Speaker B: Mm. [00:13:53] Speaker A: I have a wall up. And that's gonna be a red flag for me, right? Because. And a lot of people love bomb today. I didn't realize how much. [00:14:01] Speaker B: Yeah, but why did you put a wall up? Because somebody love bomb you. [00:14:05] Speaker A: Because the last person that love bombed you love bombed you to a point and got you to. And used it as a manipulation tactic. [00:14:12] Speaker B: So when you say, wow, do you mean it just takes a moment for you to express yourself or allow that Express. Because if they love. [00:14:19] Speaker A: If they love bombing me, I'm like, hold up, let me, let me take a step back. [00:14:23] Speaker B: So when somebody show you sincere emotion, it's. [00:14:26] Speaker A: Sincere emotion is different than love bombing. [00:14:29] Speaker B: But I'm saying you wouldn't know though. [00:14:31] Speaker A: Yeah, you would. You can tell. [00:14:33] Speaker B: No, I'm saying not really. Because if you could tell, then you, you would not have a wall. Yeah, but what I'm saying, if, if you could tell, then you would not have a wall up because you would, you know how to recognize the love bombing. So ain't no need to have a wall there. The wall shouldn't exist if you already aware of what love bombing look like. [00:14:49] Speaker A: I'm not saying it's right or wrong. I'm just saying that this is how people function because people function through their trauma. One relationship. Whatever you take from each relationship, you're going to bring into your other. I hate it. I hate that people do it because I don't believe that. Like me personally, if I'm coming in to whatever, I'm in with an open slate. If I'm coming into whatever, I'm in with this open mind and I don't have a wall up and I'm giving and I'm treating you as if you would. This was the first time meet and you're not treat. And it doesn't matter what you do because what you're not the last person I was with. Right. Most people don't see that they have a trauma response. Most people. If, if, if the last girl that you. That I was with buttered her bread on the left on, on the, on the side, on the bottom and then put it in toaster oven. The second I see you do it, I'm gonna be like you a cheater. Cause she cheated on me. You know what I'm saying? Like that's not the case. Or, or every time, you know what I'm saying? Or, or, or every time, you know, she turned off, her phone was on do not disturb, she was cheating. Because the last time my mate had their phone on do not disturb, they was cheating. [00:16:00] Speaker B: I triggered a hell out of people with that. [00:16:02] Speaker A: I guess now. Well, I'm gonna say this because I keep my phone. [00:16:05] Speaker B: I'm. Do not disturb. [00:16:07] Speaker A: Do not disturb to me. [00:16:11] Speaker B: Call me back twice if you really wanna talk to me. [00:16:13] Speaker A: To me, to me. I think, I think do not disturb is a cop out for people. [00:16:24] Speaker B: So why do you feel like it's a. To me, I put my do not disturb on because I don't like the. It ain't about like protecting my piece. It's really about. I don't really want to be bothered at certain times. [00:16:36] Speaker A: Put your phone on silent. [00:16:38] Speaker B: No, that's not enough. [00:16:39] Speaker A: You can put on silent. It won't vibrate, it won't do nothing. [00:16:42] Speaker B: But see, mine vibrates. IPhone set up like this. [00:16:45] Speaker A: No, you can, I don't know, vibrate. [00:16:47] Speaker B: Well, at the end of the day it's still the same thing as ignoring somebody. [00:16:50] Speaker A: If I put my phone down like. [00:16:52] Speaker B: Do not disturb that let somebody know, hey, around this time, either she's. And most of the time mine is on because I work midnight, you know, overnight. [00:17:01] Speaker A: Different if you're at work when everybody else talking about. I'm talking about the people who have their phone on do not disturb all day. [00:17:07] Speaker B: Well, I mean, not my kids too, because I have to call three times. I think it just becomes one of those things that people just use. Just like disconnecting. But you gotta think where you at too, you know. And I feel like it's a good thing for the simple fact if you're separating from your device and I agree with you because we don't know how to communicate without having that little thing. So now communication goes after 9:30. [00:17:32] Speaker A: Yeah, if I'm home after 9:30, that shows my phone silent. And I usually put my phone across the room or on the couch or wherever and it's on silent. And I like the couch because if it vibrates I really can't hear it. And if it does anything because if it does something, I'm going to go up and go pick it up. And I'm really not on social media like that late now. Unless I've been drinking and it's just one of them nights. [00:17:58] Speaker B: But you know, everybody reason for do not disturb is. And I, I really feel like sometimes we police people and then. [00:18:05] Speaker A: So I'm not policing, I'm not policing your stuff. [00:18:07] Speaker B: No, I'm just saying, I'm not saying mine. I'm saying sometimes people do police people. Well, I gotta call twice. Like. [00:18:16] Speaker A: No, I'm just saying like I. [00:18:18] Speaker B: And see a person like me, if you get an attitude because I answered you, but my phone was on do not disturb. But I did answer. Either I call you back or you trying to call me or I call you or whatever and you get an attitude. When I finally pick up like a person like me, I'm going to hang the hell up. And it's like, you don't pay my. How can you dictate what's going on on this device when you don't pay it? [00:18:38] Speaker A: And then the next now if you. [00:18:40] Speaker B: Pay the bill then yeah, okay, if I'm else and you feel the type way then you know, then it's higher range. [00:18:49] Speaker A: Funny story. Funny story. My daughter, I was trying to call my daughter. I pay her bill and she would not. She did not answer the phone. She did not answer the phone. She did not answer the phone. She did not answer the phone phone. So next day she called me from somebody else's phone. [00:19:09] Speaker B: Cuz you turned the phone off? [00:19:11] Speaker A: I turned that off. [00:19:12] Speaker B: I mean I can't be funny cuz I I did that same to my oldest. [00:19:15] Speaker A: You're not going to not answer the phone bill. The person who paid the bill. You're not going to not answer my call. [00:19:23] Speaker B: You're not going to or call me back like that's. Or either shoot me a text, hey, I'm at work or something. [00:19:29] Speaker A: At work. I'm at practice. I'm at whatever now dad, I'm in practice. Dad, I'll call you back. Yes, you ain't got that problem no more. [00:19:38] Speaker B: Let's see with me if I have my phone on do not disturb and if I care enough about that person I am going to tell them hey, I'm resting, you know I'm going to respond. But if I don't care like I just like whenever I feel like talking, I talk. I don't owe no explanation. It really about being in that favorites. Oh oh oh. [00:20:03] Speaker A: Makes sense. [00:20:04] Speaker B: It about being in that favorites because you in the favorites. You get right on through. [00:20:11] Speaker A: Get right on through. [00:20:12] Speaker B: You get right on through if you in the favorites. The only people in my favorites is my kids. [00:20:16] Speaker A: Okay, okay. [00:20:17] Speaker B: Cause I don't even save numbers. [00:20:20] Speaker A: Damn. [00:20:20] Speaker B: I don't save numbers. I remember the last digits and so. [00:20:24] Speaker A: That'S how you know Exactly. [00:20:26] Speaker B: Because I'm talking to you all the time. You see what I'm saying? So if I don't talk to you, I don't and I guess it's an omen with me of saving numbers because soon as I'm feeling somebody and I like them and I say they number they start acting the ass. [00:20:40] Speaker A: So I said do they know? But they don't know you saved that number. [00:20:43] Speaker B: Yeah they do. [00:20:44] Speaker A: No they don't. Yeah they do save that number. [00:20:46] Speaker B: Cause I'll screenshot it. Oh look what you know. And I asked for the picture and stuff. If I ask for a picture then I'm saving your number. [00:20:53] Speaker A: But you don't need that with iPhones. Now what you need, you don't. [00:20:56] Speaker B: I don't want Some pictures. I don't want the picture you got up there. I want our original picture. [00:21:01] Speaker A: Oh, wow. [00:21:02] Speaker B: I'm even the type of person don't post no picture and not send it to me. If we're in a relationship, I want the picture first before you post it out there to the thoughts. [00:21:12] Speaker A: Well, I don't post, so. [00:21:13] Speaker B: But I'm the type of person, like, yeah, give me a like. Because if I see something, I'm like, oh, you look cute today. Why I ain't get that. It feel like sloppy seconds. What? I'm just saying, you know how back in the day the mom be like, don't let me be the last to know. That's me. Stop. Don't let me be the last to know. You got your hair cut. The fuck? I done had to see you woofing and all and then you. You know what I'm saying? Stunning and shit. Nice fade. Barbara did me right, and I ain't getting pictures. [00:21:49] Speaker A: That's a little lame, though. Nah, like that. That's those pictures. Dudes who do like selfies. [00:21:55] Speaker B: I like selfies. [00:21:56] Speaker A: They're really weird. [00:21:57] Speaker B: But I like selfies because I feel like you feeling yourself. Because then if you feeling yourself, you able to deal with somebody like me. Cause you know, I post a lot, so my stuff that I was like for the week, I can't deal with. [00:22:08] Speaker A: No, I can. I. I can. I think that. I think that you can enjoy whatever it is you're making does without indulging in what they do. I mean, if that makes sense. [00:22:19] Speaker B: Like, if you're not a selfie person. [00:22:21] Speaker A: If I'm not a selfie poster. [00:22:22] Speaker B: Yeah, most definitely. Yeah. [00:22:23] Speaker A: I can. I could. I could like your pictures. I can comment on your pictures. I can throw subs, whatever it is that needs to happen. Because really and truly, I'm more of a private person than anything else. So. I don't like posting. People that I'm with, I don't like. I don't like them subliminal posts talking about something she got me. I'm not doing a picture with the damn. The selfies emoji over the face and all. I'm not doing all of that. [00:22:52] Speaker B: What Cardi said, if ain't no ring on my finger, you ain't going on the ground. Yeah, yeah, Most definitely ain't posting. I don't care if it is a ring. Like, I don't. [00:23:03] Speaker A: I just don't see that. I don't see. [00:23:05] Speaker B: My social media is for me. It has my name on it. Not our name. [00:23:08] Speaker A: Yeah. I think that if you go on a trip maybe. [00:23:11] Speaker B: No, not even posting it. [00:23:12] Speaker A: If you. [00:23:15] Speaker B: I'll post by myself. [00:23:16] Speaker A: I would probably post my wedding pictures if I got up. If we got married. [00:23:19] Speaker B: No, not posting it. Because you should have been there. No, I'll post my gas everybody. But as far as. No, you should have been there. Gotta be there. Like people don't even know I have kids. That's all private. People don't know I have kids and people don't know my real name. I remember one time I was talking in third person to my government name. Nobody knew who that was. It was so funny. [00:23:53] Speaker A: Well everybody, thank you for tapping into another episode. Thank you. [00:23:58] Speaker B: You're welcome. [00:23:59] Speaker A: For joining the show. [00:24:00] Speaker B: We're gonna continue. [00:24:01] Speaker A: Definitely. Appreciate when I have more time. [00:24:04] Speaker B: We. Most definitely. Because I gotta get in your ass about somebody. [00:24:08] Speaker A: You don't. That's wild. Pause. [00:24:13] Speaker B: It lasts. [00:24:15] Speaker A: No. [00:24:18] Speaker B: No pegging. [00:24:20] Speaker A: No. [00:24:22] Speaker B: I heard it's not gay if a female does it, but that's a whole nother topic. We gonna have to keep that for next time. [00:24:29] Speaker A: It is. I'm here to tell you it is. [00:24:31] Speaker B: I mean, I got. [00:24:34] Speaker A: It is. [00:24:34] Speaker B: So if a person lets you do that. No, real quick. If a guy lets you do that, that means he gay. [00:24:40] Speaker A: Yes. [00:24:41] Speaker B: Like for real peg. [00:24:42] Speaker A: You peg him like where you got the strap on. And you are. [00:24:46] Speaker B: Oh, what if it's not a strap? What if he want his finger in. In his. [00:24:51] Speaker A: It's a little suspect. [00:24:52] Speaker B: That's the little sus. [00:24:55] Speaker A: Cuz the positions. [00:24:56] Speaker B: I thought that just mean that he. [00:24:57] Speaker A: Wanted to be freaky because the positions that he has to get in to do that. [00:25:06] Speaker B: Right or wrong. You lift weights on forest. We'll talk about it. [00:25:15] Speaker A: What other way? What other way is it? Put his leg cocked up in the air. Yeah. [00:25:20] Speaker B: No child's pose. He's doing yoga. [00:25:29] Speaker A: Tell the people how they can find you on social media. [00:25:31] Speaker B: You can find me at Nyanaranae on our social media platforms. That's N I A N A R E N E E. Especially Instagram. I'm more active on Instagram and Tick Tock. [00:25:48] Speaker A: Once again, man. Thank y' all for tapping into the show. V totally miss Sweetheart. Can't wait till you're back. Until the next time y'. All this relationship status podcast. We are out. Peace. I can't.