142nd Lunch Date: Dip, Slide, Ride

[00:00:12] Speaker A: Here we are once again back here on Relationship Status. Welcome to our Wednesday episode. Is it Wednesday? [00:00:19] Speaker B: It is hump day. [00:00:20] Speaker A: Okay. It's Wednesday. It's Wednesday. You know, you self CF. How was your hump day? Can men ask men that? [00:00:32] Speaker B: No. [00:00:32] Speaker A: Okay. That's wow. [00:00:34] Speaker B: Yeah. I was about to ask you what you were doing. [00:00:37] Speaker A: No, because you can't say pause or anything. No, because that's something. It's wrong. [00:00:44] Speaker B: That's what they say. [00:00:45] Speaker A: Politically wrong. [00:00:46] Speaker B: It's politically incorrect. Okay, sir, but if you want to join the conversation, hit us up. Relstat [email protected]. Remember to like, comment, share five star rate. You could catch us anywhere. You listen to your favorite podcast for free as well as relationshipstatuspodcast.com. We're here for another Wednesday and the great couple from Vocasmic Vibes has returned again to help us with this letter. And I can't wait to get you guys responses. Welcome again. [00:01:17] Speaker C: Thank you for having us back. [00:01:19] Speaker D: What's going on? [00:01:20] Speaker A: Thank you all for being back. [00:01:21] Speaker D: Yes, but quick question. We can't say pause anymore. [00:01:26] Speaker B: They say it's politically correct. [00:01:28] Speaker D: I thought you just couldn't say no. [00:01:30] Speaker A: Oh, no, that one's been out. Well, I have a past because I have a couple of cousins who are gay. That allows me a certain amount of yes. It's like having a black friend. It allows me because he will laugh. It don't bother him. [00:01:50] Speaker B: You were supposed to have him on the show. [00:01:52] Speaker A: No, we can't. [00:01:52] Speaker B: A long time ago. [00:01:53] Speaker A: No, we can't. He already is a show off. He would really show off. He would really show off. He would really take us to the next level. We might get somewhere. Yeah. [00:02:07] Speaker C: Sound like a good idea. [00:02:08] Speaker D: Like a cancer waiting to happen. [00:02:10] Speaker A: Yeah, okay. You laugh. He flirt with you. Don't get uncomfortable in here. I'm safe. I'm his family. He flirt with you. I'm like, that's all y'all, man. What do you want to be? Still want to have him on the show, then? [00:02:28] Speaker B: No. [00:02:31] Speaker A: If a man flirted with you, what would you do? [00:02:34] Speaker B: It's happened once before. [00:02:36] Speaker A: Okay, ditto. [00:02:37] Speaker D: I told my wife. [00:02:38] Speaker A: You did go to what did I tell you? [00:02:42] Speaker D: I told you she broke it down. She's an investigator. She don't found all the information. [00:02:47] Speaker A: Did you know him? [00:02:48] Speaker C: No. [00:02:49] Speaker A: Okay, so you was out here being a tease? No, sir. [00:02:55] Speaker D: No, sir. [00:02:57] Speaker A: Put some clothes on. [00:03:02] Speaker D: I was at the gym, and buddy, I was working out twice a day at the time, and so I'd never seen him before. He was like, man, you're working out twice a day? [00:03:12] Speaker A: Oh, wow. [00:03:13] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:03:16] Speaker D: So I was like, yeah, man, you know what I'm saying? I had some goals this year. I was trying to get in blah blah while I said I was trying to get right with God, get closer to God. Wanted to open a business, wanted to get back in shape. And I was like, I've done all three. So he was like, hey, man, what's kind of business you got. I told him I was an insurance agent. He said, man, if you could save me some money on your insurance on my insurance, then I'll switch over. I was like, here's my business card. [00:03:36] Speaker A: Switch over was the key. [00:03:42] Speaker D: I thought it was a heterosexual conversation. Yeah, me too. Buddy started texting me the next day. Mind you, I'm assuming he's going to eventually ask for an insurance quote. Something going along with yes got weird. I was like, wait a minute. Some of these questions are questions I would have been asking a young lady as soon as I came home. I was like, babe, does this look weird to you? I give her the phone. [00:04:04] Speaker C: I said, oh. [00:04:05] Speaker D: She started doing she was like, oh, yeah. [00:04:07] Speaker C: I said, he's trying to come on. [00:04:09] Speaker A: So did you block him, or what did you do, just not respond? [00:04:13] Speaker D: I keep the response for receipts. [00:04:15] Speaker A: You want me to read? No, that's up to you, sir. [00:04:18] Speaker C: We got a letter to do today. [00:04:21] Speaker D: Point blank period. It was Abraham, happily heterosexual married man. [00:04:25] Speaker A: You text him that? [00:04:26] Speaker D: Oh, yeah. Much more. A little more words. And I was like, I ain't with that lifestyle. To each his own. It's not me. Anything outside of an insurance quote don't reach out to me. [00:04:38] Speaker C: And I don't reach out for that because I tried to take the phone, but he hurried and responded, so I wouldn't do it. [00:04:43] Speaker A: Really? Okay. [00:04:43] Speaker C: I was like, I go to the gym a lot as well. That was his safe space to watch you and figure out your patterns without so he banned. And not just him, because turns out. [00:04:57] Speaker D: They were trying to get Buddy banned. [00:04:58] Speaker C: From they're trying to get him banned. [00:04:59] Speaker D: From the I was a little taken aback by the whole situation. [00:05:17] Speaker A: Two things, two questions. Now, this man would have been white. How would that make you feel? [00:05:27] Speaker D: Somebody would have been getting paid. [00:05:29] Speaker A: Okay. [00:05:29] Speaker D: I'd have been getting paid or something. [00:05:31] Speaker A: Okay? Just let it go. No, I'm just keeping level. Okay? I knew this question is about to go ahead. I'm just asking because they say when gay guys work with you, you have arrived like, you are good looking now. That's what they say. Okay, I see. [00:05:58] Speaker B: Okay. [00:05:59] Speaker A: I guess I'm handsome. Hey, buddy, I don't know what you're trying to do. See that look in your eye? [00:06:06] Speaker D: Amen. [00:06:07] Speaker A: They helped me push a car. I was driving a car back from a dealership, and the needle didn't work. So two, I was no 50 yards from the gas station. So I'm pushing in, doing downhill, and they help me. I get there and do I was like, man, thank you, bro. Both of them, full face makeup. Tom. I said, what's going on with you? I said not no double. What are you all doing? They were just like, guys, full face of makeup. Big dudes, too. I was like, Nah, bro, I don't know. No. [00:06:46] Speaker D: Yeah. Let's get off this subject for the CBC. [00:06:50] Speaker B: Let's go ahead and get into this letter. You got a letter from a guy. [00:06:54] Speaker A: And it was strong. They were strong down the wood. I was like they were straight across, going fast. There was john full face of miko. Full face like regular dude. Okay, let's go to the listen. [00:07:20] Speaker D: So you have double arrived. [00:07:24] Speaker B: If you are new to the show, nobody tells a story like I'm just. [00:07:28] Speaker A: Saying it was strange. I was like that. Thank you, lord. But I don't necessarily need know good. [00:07:34] Speaker B: The monkey on the road on the way home. [00:07:37] Speaker A: That was true. [00:07:38] Speaker D: A monkey. Where were you? [00:07:39] Speaker A: I was quimby. There was a monkey sitting on the sign. You know, when you go past the IGA like a housing development. You sure? 03:00 in the morning, a monkey. I stopped. The monkey looked at me, made eye contact. I said, I've been out here too late. [00:07:56] Speaker D: I got to get yo. What were you on? [00:08:00] Speaker A: I don't do any drugs. [00:08:01] Speaker D: You went at home with mama, so. [00:08:03] Speaker A: You might have no, I was coming from atlanta on a basketball trip and I said, is that a monkey? [00:08:10] Speaker D: You saw a chimpanzee? 03:00 in the morning. They're not nocturnal, sir. [00:08:14] Speaker A: I think it was somebody's pet and he had gotten loose, but he was sitting on the sign. I stopped the car. The monkey didn't even move. [00:08:23] Speaker D: I said, where's the cell phone footage? [00:08:27] Speaker A: I couldn't do it. And I saw armadillo at the same huh? [00:08:31] Speaker D: I believe that. [00:08:32] Speaker A: Okay. You know why? Because armadillo's not supposed to be here. [00:08:35] Speaker D: That's not true. [00:08:36] Speaker A: That's not true. [00:08:37] Speaker D: They infest allendale fairfax. [00:08:40] Speaker A: What? Put it like this armadillos came from armadale. [00:08:44] Speaker D: I promise you. The first time she took me to allendale, we leaving charleston. And I looked, I said, was that an armadillo? Never seen one in real life. [00:08:55] Speaker A: She was used to it. [00:08:55] Speaker D: She's like, oh, yeah. So I'm sitting here laughing, like talking to her mom, right? And she was like, yeah, we got them. She was like, we got wolves and. [00:09:08] Speaker A: Foxes that eat them. [00:09:09] Speaker D: It's probably a wolf in the backyard. A fox in the backyard. [00:09:11] Speaker A: Right now. [00:09:12] Speaker D: If I'm lying, I'm flying. I go look out the back window and a fox and an armadillo is in the backyard. [00:09:24] Speaker A: Was he trying to eat armadillo? [00:09:25] Speaker D: Yes. [00:09:28] Speaker A: We broke him. Cake. We can see. We stop shut right here. We've done it all. I only seen an armadillo in Texas. [00:09:38] Speaker D: Thank you. [00:09:39] Speaker A: So only was I've ever seen an armadillo in my life. [00:09:41] Speaker D: Thank you. [00:09:41] Speaker A: In california. [00:09:43] Speaker D: I kid you not, florence. I was like, put it on everything I love. [00:09:46] Speaker A: You know what I said? I'm not coming back to quinby. [00:09:48] Speaker D: I'm going everything I love. [00:09:51] Speaker A: Okay. So it could happen. [00:09:53] Speaker D: It's very possible. [00:09:54] Speaker A: Okay. [00:09:54] Speaker D: I believe your monkey monkey's a little more believable. Yeah. [00:09:58] Speaker A: Once he was sitting, did he have. [00:09:59] Speaker D: On a diaper paper? [00:10:00] Speaker A: No. But he was sitting on the sign. [00:10:01] Speaker D: He looked comfortable, like he's in the banana. [00:10:03] Speaker A: No, that would have been racist. So I would have definitely got the phone out for that. Because I'm against all racism. You're trying to set me up. [00:10:16] Speaker B: Anyway, we go end up here forever. Let's get into this letter. [00:10:20] Speaker A: Okay, let's go. [00:10:22] Speaker B: Hey there, Nikl and Yusuf. I'm trying to cut this short to get you up to date. Over a year ago, I had this girl started my job, and after a while she started messaging me on Facebook, claiming that I knew her husband, who I went to school with. We started talking on messenger almost every day and got closer, I guess because we always saw each other at work and talked afterwards. Things got to the point where she must have been having trouble with her husband. He was an absolute lame in high school, by the way. I enjoyed her company as we clicked really well, and she would tell me constantly about how she wanted to get out of her marriage and away from her husband. It would get to the point where we would cancel plans, where I would cancel plans and stand her just because I really didn't want to interfere with her marriage. But here's where it gets messed up. About eleven to twelve months have passed or so, and she ended up coming over to my place for the weekend with much of the time we spent in bed. The next week at work, she started acting strange. I asked her to go for a walk and she tells me that she's pregnant. She says, but it's not yours. Suddenly, right after telling me that, she said, I had an IVF procedure with my husband right before you, and apparently it worked. In that moment, I congratulated her. Sorry I lost my place. In that moment, I congratulated her. Though. As days passed, I couldn't help but wonder why it couldn't have been mine. So I asked. She said her response was like, I told you, I did it months ago, and decided the day before to get it done. She now has gone back to her husband, who she says knows that she knows who it is, that she knows whose baby it is and will be having the baby. But I have no idea it's mine because I know him. Do I tell him, Please help. I'll be listening for your response. [00:12:15] Speaker C: Oh, sir, that's your baby. [00:12:16] Speaker A: Is this baby? [00:12:17] Speaker C: It is. [00:12:19] Speaker A: How? [00:12:20] Speaker D: She had it months ago and wasn't pregnant? [00:12:23] Speaker C: No, she had the IVF procedure and she's saying she went to go get the procedure done to implant the egg. But from what I hear, that's not easy, and then it make you feel away and you would have been down. I feel like he would have known if she went to the hospital and had the procedure and did all that, you would have mentioned. [00:12:44] Speaker A: So she had that prior to meeting him? [00:12:46] Speaker B: No, she had it done prior to let me stop. [00:12:52] Speaker A: What is the procedure? I don't even know what IVF? What is that? Something to do with getting pregnant, where. [00:12:58] Speaker C: You can extract eggs, you can save them, and then you can go get a procedure where they have to do shots and needles and all this to help the eggs get implanted so that you can be pregnant. [00:13:11] Speaker A: Okay. Anybody can fertilize these eggs, or do they fertilize them and put them in? [00:13:17] Speaker C: They put it in, but the medicine you're doing is to help them get. [00:13:23] Speaker A: Fertilized, help them catch the sperm. [00:13:25] Speaker C: Right. [00:13:25] Speaker A: So they couldn't just do, like, a two, one, two, put all in it. Okay. I know. I never had this done, you know more than me. Okay. [00:13:35] Speaker C: So I just feel like she would have mentioned that I have to go to the doctor. I got to go to this, because that's not like no, that's something they. [00:13:44] Speaker A: Have to do treatments and go back. [00:13:45] Speaker C: I would think you have to schedule as well. So to say you went the day did she say she said she went? [00:13:51] Speaker B: Yeah, the day before being with him. [00:13:52] Speaker C: I don't think you could just so. [00:13:54] Speaker A: You'Re saying a woman lying again? [00:13:56] Speaker C: I feel like she lying. If she did go the day before him, it has to take. And then they have to test you to see if it went well. Is it growing and progressing to the next stage? So if you went the day before you had sex with him, how do. [00:14:12] Speaker D: You know she's slying? Can we address the elephant in the room? This hussey is cheating on her man with the coworker. [00:14:22] Speaker A: I was going to get to that. [00:14:24] Speaker C: At first, I wasn't sure the gender of the person writing the letter. [00:14:27] Speaker A: I'm like, Wait, what are we hold on. [00:14:31] Speaker D: No, because it just said, I know your husband from high school, so I. [00:14:35] Speaker C: Didn'T know where it was. [00:14:35] Speaker D: He was lame. [00:14:36] Speaker A: The husband was oh, I thought she was saying he was a lame. So a man wrote this letter. [00:14:43] Speaker B: The guy who had sex with the wife, he's the one who wrote the letter because he's trying to find out whether he should tell the husband that that might be his baby. [00:14:51] Speaker D: Do they work at Honda? [00:14:53] Speaker A: That's a good question, because they say it go down over there. I've heard that. I didn't even know that was, like, a thing. Okay. [00:15:02] Speaker C: Yeah. So that's why at the beginning, it said, I think I know your husband, that you went to school with him. That's how she approached him? [00:15:08] Speaker B: Yeah, she approached him saying, you know my husband, right? Y'all went to high school. [00:15:12] Speaker D: Use her husband to holler. [00:15:14] Speaker C: She could have told him that at work. I mean, your husband was a lame. [00:15:17] Speaker D: In high school, so he feels like especially if he like her. This dude wasn't lame. He don't even deserve them cookies. [00:15:23] Speaker A: Oh, he do like her. Clearly he likes her. [00:15:25] Speaker D: Clearly he canceled plans to go hang out with her. You cancel plans for people you got feelings for. [00:15:35] Speaker A: This could be Honda. [00:15:36] Speaker B: This could be Honda. [00:15:37] Speaker A: I think we own this. Sounds like a local. [00:15:42] Speaker B: It was in our private group, so. [00:15:44] Speaker A: I don't only it's only R1 High School here now. [00:15:48] Speaker D: I'm with Queen Shay on this one. Sir, that's your child. Secondly, heck no. You should not tell her husband. You should have told her husband, hey, me and your wife got something going on. [00:16:01] Speaker C: You can't you should have not messed with the man. [00:16:06] Speaker A: After the fact. [00:16:07] Speaker D: Yeah, because he should have never messed with her. First and foremost. That Hussein led that man on. [00:16:12] Speaker A: She did. She did. [00:16:14] Speaker D: She was in a relationship. [00:16:15] Speaker C: So let's not do this. So we already know both parts at fault. [00:16:19] Speaker A: She knew he was weak. [00:16:20] Speaker D: Hey, Adam. [00:16:22] Speaker C: Adam didn't use protection because if they did, I don't think he would feel. [00:16:26] Speaker D: Even thinking about definitely Honda. Then he done dipslide here. This whole letter is off the chain. I like this. It's juicy though. Yeah. I think that's the letter writer's baby. The husband might have been Elaine, but he going to get his just due. [00:16:54] Speaker C: Let me really break this down for you. They're having IVF. If you're at the stage of having IVF, that means you've already tried several things and it's not easy for you all to get pregnant. Wait, so the fact that you're not able to easily get pregnant, there is now strain on your marriage because you all want kids. [00:17:12] Speaker D: That's true. [00:17:14] Speaker C: You love the man. He's not a lame. You frustrated and maybe you're mad. Maybe it's the man's fault. I don't know who fault it is that you can't get pregnant or whose issue. But that's why the stress is in the house. That could be stressful if you're not having kids. [00:17:28] Speaker D: That's real. [00:17:29] Speaker C: So now this lady has approached you because she's trying to see if your sperm worked. You fell for the trap, didn't use no protection. She got pregnant, knew to test herself. She didn't go get nothing because she'd been doing that IVF and it would have worked before then. You know what, she's now pregnant. She now is able to have this baby. She trying to cut you off because now her husband feels fulfilled because she is able to give him that baby that they've been trying to have this whole while that they've been married. [00:17:57] Speaker D: You know what? This is not Honda. [00:17:59] Speaker A: It's not IVF. [00:18:01] Speaker D: What's? IVF? [00:18:02] Speaker C: No, it ain't cheap. No way. [00:18:04] Speaker D: It ain't cheap. [00:18:05] Speaker C: Still could be Honda. [00:18:06] Speaker D: And it's not covered by the medical. [00:18:07] Speaker C: Nope, a lot of medical is covering it now. So depending listen, my coworker had done. [00:18:14] Speaker D: And it was sound like GE for the most part. [00:18:16] Speaker A: Sound like ge'all. Get what I'm going I do that's. [00:18:21] Speaker C: For the stress of the house. And now that that lady can go home and tell her husband. It. [00:18:28] Speaker B: A lot. [00:18:29] Speaker D: She gonna let that man raise that other man baby. [00:18:31] Speaker C: Right. So he trying to cut him off. And I feel like this man feeling like, wait a minute, wait a minute. Because if you go to that husband and all he got to do is ask for paternity test, you can go to a court and they gonna make her give that. [00:18:42] Speaker D: He gonna pull the Bernie Mac out of Pappy on own. That joker. [00:18:45] Speaker A: Right, okay. Why would you go to the man. [00:18:49] Speaker C: He likes this lady. [00:18:51] Speaker D: He doesn't go you can't do woman. [00:18:53] Speaker A: To woman to a man. [00:18:55] Speaker D: Good point. He can't. [00:18:57] Speaker A: Shirley yeah. [00:18:58] Speaker D: Charles he can't do it. Yeah, you're right. [00:19:01] Speaker C: But he feel like that's my I. [00:19:04] Speaker A: Know him, he must feel like he can beat the man. [00:19:06] Speaker B: Well, he said he's a lame. [00:19:08] Speaker A: He's a lame in high school, but that's high school. [00:19:10] Speaker D: That don't mean they got nothing to do with nothing to do with now. [00:19:15] Speaker B: No, I'm just saying that's the reason. [00:19:17] Speaker D: Why I feel that way. That's why he put his mind sugar bowl. [00:19:22] Speaker A: So he dealt with her because she had a lame and now he feels like he can disrespect this man because. [00:19:26] Speaker D: Probably yeah, I'll tell him. I'll tell him for you and look, and we can raise our baby. [00:19:32] Speaker C: I was in a relationship and I ended my relationship to be this lady. He didn't have nobody. [00:19:37] Speaker D: So she rocked his world. [00:19:42] Speaker C: Yeah, he all in and he trying to ruin what they got so he can be with her. But, sir, that is your baby. Now, you have made their point for it. [00:19:53] Speaker B: The whole point is for you to. [00:19:54] Speaker D: That'S why you take the super, the big H as. [00:19:58] Speaker C: But listen, I feel like his sperm took immediately. [00:20:02] Speaker D: She rocked his world. [00:20:03] Speaker A: So my man had weak sperm or. [00:20:06] Speaker D: Probably had low sperm count as possible. Yeah. [00:20:10] Speaker B: So she might not have been the problem. [00:20:12] Speaker D: Not at all. [00:20:13] Speaker A: No, she's the problem. [00:20:14] Speaker B: No, I'm talking about with. I'm saying with getting the IVF, she might not have been the problem medically. [00:20:21] Speaker C: Right. And so that's why I was saying she was seeking another man. [00:20:25] Speaker D: She wanted to test herself out, make. [00:20:27] Speaker C: Sure she found somebody where there was a mutual connection. Like, this is how I'm going to get him, because you all know that was her. [00:20:32] Speaker A: Should he tell or should they just threaten her and try to sounds like. [00:20:36] Speaker D: He want that child. So he like, Should I tell? [00:20:40] Speaker B: I think he wants the connection more than he wants the child. [00:20:43] Speaker C: Right. He's not worried about baby, but that's his way. Now, she has tried to cut him off, right? [00:20:47] Speaker B: Yes. After 1112 money, my months. I'm sorry, after 1112 months, what you do when you've been dealing with somebody for that long, you gain feelings even. [00:21:01] Speaker A: If you don't mean but hold on a second. Now, if I know you married, I can't ever gain feelings. [00:21:06] Speaker D: That's not true. [00:21:07] Speaker B: No, they will. [00:21:11] Speaker A: He might be the lame. [00:21:15] Speaker D: Sleeping with a married woman 100%, but they're equally wrong in this situation. I'm joking and I'm calling a husband all that, but equally wrong. First of all, you talk to a married man, bro a married woman, she. [00:21:28] Speaker C: Worse, because if you intentionally, they're equally wrong. [00:21:32] Speaker D: She's wrong because she knew she's breaking her vows, too. He's wrong because he knows she's married. [00:21:36] Speaker C: Another life incident. That's potentially that man's child. I do feel like it's his child, because if it was that easy for you to get pregnant, you wouldn't have been on IVF. You all get what I'm saying? [00:21:49] Speaker B: Makes complete sense. [00:21:50] Speaker C: That's why she wasn't happy. That's stressful trying to have that was her work boo. [00:21:56] Speaker D: They were talking for a year. [00:21:59] Speaker C: What? [00:21:59] Speaker A: You talking to somebody wife for a year? [00:22:01] Speaker C: The thrill at this point, he ain't thinking about that's somebody wife. He thinking that's his short. [00:22:07] Speaker D: That's his shorty. [00:22:09] Speaker B: Every day we hanging out at work. [00:22:11] Speaker D: I refuse to believe they had sex. I refuse to believe they had sex only once. [00:22:18] Speaker A: They said they had sex once. [00:22:19] Speaker B: No, they spent the weekend together and they spent the entire weekend in the bed. So they had sex multiplicity of times. [00:22:26] Speaker D: I'm just saying. [00:22:26] Speaker A: So it took him a year to hit. [00:22:28] Speaker B: He didn't specify that. [00:22:31] Speaker D: You can't spend a weekend together the whole weekend. [00:22:34] Speaker C: Here's the other thing to that. So when you're doing the idea, if. [00:22:37] Speaker B: You spend a weekend together and you speed the whole weekend in bed, I'm pretty certain you've done things prior to that week. [00:22:41] Speaker C: Not even necessarily. They definitely use no ovulation. So if a woman is trying to. [00:22:48] Speaker A: Think about ovulation, okay. [00:22:50] Speaker C: Then she knows her ovulation schedule. You have a window of a few days of when you are most fertile, and she's taking the IVF. So when you said the weekend, she scheduled the whole thing around her Ovulation window to guarantee that she going to. [00:23:04] Speaker B: Talk that thing all the way through. [00:23:05] Speaker A: So she's the demon here. [00:23:07] Speaker C: Yes. [00:23:07] Speaker D: I'm back to call it. [00:23:08] Speaker A: Yeah. I think. [00:23:13] Speaker C: She'S at way more fault like, because you're bringing a lot you really took advantage of Bro. [00:23:17] Speaker D: He wrong for that. [00:23:18] Speaker C: He in a vulnerable state. His feelings yes. [00:23:21] Speaker D: He feel all kind of violated right now. [00:23:24] Speaker B: Yeah. Oh, no, he hurt now. [00:23:26] Speaker D: Ask him to come on the show. [00:23:28] Speaker B: I'll message you. [00:23:30] Speaker A: You can see who sent you that. Yeah, I don't mess with the Internet. Wait, hold on. [00:23:36] Speaker B: Unless they post it as anonymous, I. [00:23:39] Speaker A: Don'T know if you can do that. [00:23:40] Speaker D: He bowl for even sending you that. [00:23:43] Speaker C: He need help. [00:23:43] Speaker D: He do. I'm sorry. [00:23:46] Speaker B: No, hold on. We had a whole person call in and do a video call with us to the point where we got a letter from the lawyer saying and that was a wild story. Like, that was wild. [00:24:01] Speaker A: Okay. [00:24:02] Speaker B: And she hit us up wanting to come back on the show to give. [00:24:04] Speaker D: An update, I would have did that update. She would have had one of them little things over her face. [00:24:11] Speaker A: Oh, no, it wasn't from her. [00:24:13] Speaker D: She would have had voice. [00:24:14] Speaker B: It was from the guy she was talking about, the guy who she came on to get advice about. [00:24:19] Speaker D: And Clout is and it was the strongest drug. [00:24:21] Speaker B: It was a two hour show. [00:24:22] Speaker A: It is. Wow. [00:24:24] Speaker D: But back to home. Sir, you got a decision to make. You don't need to talk to that man at all. All your conversations need to be directed to her. [00:24:36] Speaker B: Right. [00:24:36] Speaker C: Because that man had nothing to do with he is bystander unfortunately, at the. [00:24:40] Speaker D: End of the day, you can't work with this woman, because if she stay with her husband and she keep this child, which most likely she is, that's most likely yours, you're going to drive yourself insane seeing her every day. [00:24:57] Speaker B: Well, he going to quit. So you say he should quit his job. [00:25:00] Speaker C: No. [00:25:02] Speaker D: They need to figure this out. [00:25:04] Speaker C: Not even that. [00:25:04] Speaker D: They need to figure that out. [00:25:05] Speaker C: Sir, do you want a child? Because there's a high chance that this is your child. If so, we don't know how far this lady is to even I don't see her not keeping it. [00:25:17] Speaker A: Because she wants a baby. [00:25:18] Speaker C: Right? She really wants this baby. She wants the baby by any means necessary to save her marriage. That lady marriage was never in trouble. That's the part he missed, that lady marriage. [00:25:31] Speaker D: Because, like you said, no, but it. [00:25:32] Speaker C: Wasn'T in the trouble breaking up like. [00:25:34] Speaker B: What she was telling him. [00:25:36] Speaker C: Right. It was in trouble because the lack of a baby was causing stress. Therefore, she found a way to fix it because she wants her husband. She wants that baby. She wants the image of the family. That husband not going to suspect. You all been doing IVF. You're going to think it worked. [00:25:52] Speaker B: And I even think from your explanation and the letter, it almost comes across as if the husband wants the baby. Not necessarily. [00:26:03] Speaker A: Right. [00:26:04] Speaker C: That's what I'm saying. [00:26:04] Speaker B: She's trying and she wants to have it to she wants him because she wants the husband. No, I'm not saying she doesn't want the baby, but I'm saying in the. [00:26:13] Speaker C: Sense she wants him to be happy. [00:26:15] Speaker B: But she wants the husband more, so to be happy. [00:26:17] Speaker C: He wants that baby, and he wants that baby. Right. [00:26:19] Speaker B: And that was probably what was causing that strain. That makes sense. [00:26:23] Speaker A: So do you wait until the baby is born? [00:26:25] Speaker D: You have to to get the no, not now. [00:26:27] Speaker C: No, you only need to be a couple of months along now. And then they do a little needle test to get the and they can. [00:26:36] Speaker A: Tell you what to do. [00:26:37] Speaker C: They can tell you pregnant. Who's the dad. [00:26:40] Speaker D: They need to do that. They need to do that just to liberate his mind and themselves. [00:26:45] Speaker B: Well, she don't care about him. [00:26:46] Speaker A: Okay, let's say it is his baby. Now, what does he do if it is? You can do both. [00:26:52] Speaker C: That's what I said. She said to think about, do you want a baby, sir? Because now the whole thing messy. [00:26:59] Speaker A: Would he be wrong if he just said, you all just keep the baby? [00:27:02] Speaker D: I ain't going to say he wrong. [00:27:03] Speaker C: If he feel that way. Morally, he should say nothing and not find out. And then morally it won't bother him because, sir, then you don't even know. You just always on a what if. But here's going to be the thing, sir. If that's your baby going to look just like you all day, you going to know. And if you all going to continue working together, somebody at that job going to have a baby shower for this lady. That's just the culture. [00:27:24] Speaker D: What if. He's like I'm just throwing hypotheticals out here. [00:27:27] Speaker C: Now, hypothetically, the husband could be in on all of this and that's why they targeted someone that they knew and he's done. [00:27:32] Speaker A: You writing a lot of people. You got a whole different man wanted that to happen. Real talk. [00:27:41] Speaker D: What if wife and husband are one complexion and side joker is a different complexion. [00:27:46] Speaker A: Wow. [00:27:47] Speaker D: And baby come out different complexion and the husband don't know. [00:27:50] Speaker C: Okay, but that's not always true. You can have people of the same complexion and child. It's not as common, but that happens. [00:28:00] Speaker D: Or a feature Jay Z lips or something and the baby come out like with lips. [00:28:10] Speaker A: What if hypothetical, nobody say nothing? What if you got tested? You know, you can only have boys and they're going to look like you. Think about it. [00:28:24] Speaker D: Plot twist. What if the baby ain't decide joker to work with her? [00:28:29] Speaker C: It could be a few of you all. He's just in the running. They need a baby by any means necessary. [00:28:35] Speaker B: On that note. [00:28:40] Speaker C: Or wait, I'm going to leave you all with one more this has happened. She has twins and one of each because who. [00:28:50] Speaker A: That's a lie. [00:28:52] Speaker C: No, it's not a lie. [00:28:54] Speaker D: Can live in the bot woman head. [00:28:56] Speaker C: For a couple of days like a pit bull. [00:28:59] Speaker A: Because that's how dogs is. Like, if your dog breed with two dogs, you could have let's think about it. [00:29:08] Speaker D: We started this episode talking about how a man tried to holl at me full circle. Then we started going to a man holland at another man's woman to knock. [00:29:18] Speaker C: A woman hollered to knob a pit. [00:29:20] Speaker D: Bull with multiple who says we can't. [00:29:24] Speaker A: Cover everything on this show? I dare anybody to top that. It's probably our best show ever. [00:29:30] Speaker B: Tell them where they can find you guys in the please. [00:29:34] Speaker D: Any place that you can get your podcast, check out Vorgasmic Vibes. I am Grant Michaels. [00:29:40] Speaker C: And I'm Queen Shay. And feel free to email us if you have anything interesting like this at vorgasmic. We need these. [00:29:46] Speaker D: Emails. I need to talk about something. I might write a fake email. [00:29:49] Speaker A: Okay, so hey, you got to fake it. Fake it to make it nobody knows. [00:29:54] Speaker B: Hey, man, see, tell them how they can find you, if you're okay with that today. [00:29:58] Speaker A: No. I might sue relationship status for something. I'm just trying to get a check for somebody. [00:30:05] Speaker B: So 3600 and it's your boy. Yousef in the building. [00:30:09] Speaker A: And we're out, dawg. [00:30:16] Speaker E: Thank you for listening to another episode of Relationship Status. Remember, you can catch us on Relationshipstatuspodcast.com, itunes, Google Podcasts, iHeartRadio Spotify, Pandora, Amazon Music, nobody Grinds Like us, and anywhere you listen to your favorite podcast. 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